Showing posts with label Parenting. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Parenting. Show all posts

Friday, July 8, 2011

Tiger Mothers and the Mommy Wars

We talked today about Amy Chua's piece, "Why Chinese Mothers Are Superior", that ignited such a firestorm of debate when it appeared in the Wall Street Journal. While Chua tries in this piece to detach literal ethnicity from her parenting practices, she still manages to highlight some very important cultural differences in how we raise our children.

This piece touches on so many very, very sensitive issues in our ongoing debate about who we are as culture, where we're going, and with whom we compete. Some things to think about when reading this piece might be:
  • The degree to which we invest our children with our own needs and goals for the future of our culture, as opposed to their own ideas;
  • Our mythologies about childhood as a general concept;
  • Our anxiety about the rise of powers other than the United States in the global marketplace;
  • How we define achievement and success.

Monday, January 17, 2011

Is Tiger Mom the Best Mom?

This article on parenting Chinese style appeared a week ago in the Wall Street Journal and has elicited literally thousands of responses and numerous counter articles. The author begins her piece by stating that:

A lot of people wonder how Chinese parents raise such stereotypically successful kids. They wonder what these parents do to produce so many math whizzes and music prodigies, what it's like inside the family, and whether they could do it too. Well, I can tell them, because I've done it. Here are some things my daughters, Sophia and Louisa, were never allowed to do:

Erin Patrice O'Brien for The Wall Street Journal

Amy Chua with her daughters, Louisa and Sophia, at their home in New Haven, Conn.

• attend a sleepover

• have a playdate

• be in a school play

• complain about not being in a school play

• watch TV or play computer games

• choose their own extracurricular activities

• get any grade less than an A

• not be the No. 1 student in every subject except gym and drama

• play any instrument other than the piano or violin

• not play the piano or violin.

See HERE

Hanna Rosin responded to this article: See here

As did Ayelet Waldman: See here

UPDATE: Tiger Mom's daughter comes to her defense: See here